If starting therapy—or even staying consistent with it—feels overwhelming, you’re not alone. For many people, the idea of “making progress” can feel heavy, intimidating, or tied to pressure to change quickly. But real, lasting change rarely happens all at once. More often, it happens in small, doable steps.

The holiday season can stir up a lot at once—joy, stress, anticipation, nostalgia, even a little dread. It’s a time filled with expectations, traditions, and busyness, and those mixed emotions are completely normal.

One simple reflection can help you move through this season with more clarity and care:

What am I most looking forward to this season, and what am I dreading?

As we enter the season of thankfulness, it’s worth remembering that gratitude isn’t just about good manners — it’s also good for your mental health.